Tisk Tisk Mr. Smith...let's talk about it.
Tisk Tisk Mr. Smith...let's talk about it.
Oh man this is my favorite part he walks up there and then he's like oh why not let
William Jeffery:me because well to be fair I found out about it I guess in real time because my one of my best friends got married we have a groomsmen text thread as the event will call it since we have yet to actually explain what we're talking about when the event took place he immediately text hair you guys watching this? You know it was like what is it the wardrobe malfunction wasn't planned wasn't playing what's going on? Oh,
Marcus:you think it was staged?
William Jeffery:Not I don't know. See the thing about the the wardrobe thing is neither one of them was documented Lee insane or you know dealing with their laundry being aired out over a colorful table. Wow.
Marcus:Okay, you know Hold on Let's before you get deep into this maybe you should introduce yourself who you are.
William Jeffery:Oh, man, I am will unfortunately I share a name with our subject matter this fine day and time I would say afternoon or evening I don't know when you're listening to this so whenever you catch this right right. I'm always gonna be well and I guess he will always be well maybe he'll want to change his name at this point. But this is head above hypocrisy and I guess we got to talk about Poor Mr. Rock getting slammed late to be professional. I would have roundhouse kick.
Marcus:He should have roundhouse kick them but like for Mr. Rock No, no, I'm your co host for this wonderful beautiful show that you host Thank you Marcus and I will see already
William Jeffery:person that got slapped. How could I not say poor assaulted the person no assault victim
Marcus:monster Smith for having to be put in such a situation?
William Jeffery:Oh, you're playing the card of audio assault like his feelings were so hurt that is acceptable that he hits somebody and I have a five and a six year old and that's not okay. So the Oscars don't play by kindergarten rule. I mean, I'm just I mean hey, look we can get into the rule society plays by that rule because if it wasn't doing a show he would be in jail. I mean, I just want to try that at a bar. I said my mama was fat so I punched him Do you know how many people would be not okay get slap you how many slaps would happen on basketball courts? People insult people's why? I was playing in an adult League and against a stranger and he talked about my buddies why he was so off guard like we laughed I was with your wife last night like bro we don't even know each there's no possible way like I was with us we were all doing nothing together. So you were on the sofa watching right? Am I not normal? Go watch reruns because I know what we're doing. I just I really like the show it's because Hank think would agree you don't you're not supposed to slap people because they hurt your feelings. He also would agree that you should defend yourself if someone does choose to slap you because their feelings are hurt. So you know two wrongs don't make a right but apparently they make a slap you
Marcus:really dependent Mr. Rock.
William Jeffery:I'm not even defending I observed assault. It's not a defense. It's an observation. He came on stage he was supposed to be like we crucify low mama for you know, bobbing her head out of place on stage. Right? Totally out alive. It took years for home to be like alright, you know what? It's okay. She's young. She has forehead problems. We're gonna just you know we're gonna let this one slide she's doing terrible
Marcus:BT her movies
William Jeffery:we don't get BT cuz I got small children minds. So, anyway you can't you can't slap people last night or you can't
Marcus:I mean in the Victorian era you could when you're challenging to a duel
William Jeffery:look we've covered we've covered this so many different ways. Charlie Murphy spoke about this, you know, regardless and so yeah, rip Mr. Murphy. Right. You don't slap a man like even back then he there was a slap out there was a dual pistols were brand new. Somebody had to die afterwards.
Marcus:See how well it was? Yeah, but he was strapped. He walked away with his hand like partially in his pocket looking around.
William Jeffery:I think he was trying to look for the first airbenders approval.
Marcus:Wow. So you know, I ducked
William Jeffery:because I thought a slap might be coming. Yeah,
Marcus:same height. So if he showed up to your doorstep Oh, because that would be like really famous and wanted to slap you.
William Jeffery:First. I have a ring. So I screen my calls. So I would answer from my phone. I would say if you would like to engage in fisticuffs, Mr. doppelganger, you will first have to sit down in the garage and have a discussion you have no trouble Aaron things out over red table. Why don't you try this steel table back here? So we can get your anger aimed at the right views anger. Absolutely.
Marcus:Well, you boy, I'm sorry. We spoke
William Jeffery:about this on it's like a kid that's been picked on for like the entire school year. And then like, you know, during a presentation, I get the talent show. The presenter makes a crack about something that I don't know. Maybe you got pantsed doing a different one. He's like, Man, I wouldn't want to get pants got caught with my pants down like Timmy and Timmy stormed the stage and hits him upside the head with a golf club. Right like it's not because of that one joke. Ah, it's because of the 438 jokes and and and initially, it's because of I don't know Skeeter who pants them. Okay, let me paint another scenario. Roger. Sorry, not Skeeter. Skeeter was Doug's. homie. Roger pastor. It wouldn't have been skewed.
Marcus:Okay, fair enough. So let me paint another picture if you if his wife because he laughed initially, he chuckled. Haha, this joke was funny. He thought it was funny.
William Jeffery:Right over proper response for a professional entertainer, right? He went over it had
Marcus:fear disgust, he saw his wife upset. Right. Right. And he thought, Alright, I need to go up there and do something about this. Right? Right. So he slapped the man. And then he said, keep my wife's name I do
William Jeffery:not allow now if if I felt like it was reciprocated, then I would be like, okay, you know, he's writing for her. She was writing for him. But when the exact same situation took place on said read table, right, right. She saw her husband sitting over there with his feelings or he was upset right? And at no point has August been slapped by anyone either with them because apparently they get down as a group. So maybe they could draw straws to see who slaps him. But if that's how they solve problems, then that's who
Marcus:should be slapped first maybe likes getting slapped.
William Jeffery:Chris Rock does not like getting slapped. Now. I could tell that that even if even if it were staged, will follow through too much. There was too much, you know, follow through backswing, whatever you call the adult slap people because I listen to Charlie Murphy. And I'm not strapped I'm not about that life. I'm not ready to show somebody
Marcus:his previous situations or her situation ship or whatever. That doesn't justify him getting on stage and defending her.
William Jeffery:Defending what it was one job he did. It wasn't like a riff. And it's been different. If it was me, or some random, you know, it also was what is one of the news people just cracking jokes. Like that's not their job. Their job is to deliver the news, if you can, you know, supposedly initially that was their job, right? But like he's a comedian, right? And if you and that wasn't even a harsh joke, right? That was like, a quip. If you I would even call it a joke. Like it was. You know, I get I guess there's the alopecia element and you can't can't make fun of people if
Marcus:they have ailments and she's been very critical or alive and sensitive basically,
William Jeffery:is what we're living because if anybody's allowed to make fun of you it's a comedian on stage at a show if it were at target while she was checking out Sure. Yeah, like I don't want to hear about my boss. While I'm trying to buy
Marcus:broccoli. Imagine Will Smith coming out of nowhere and slapping
William Jeffery:is 100% justified like this is not the place this is not your profession and saying you know crack jokes right like but he he cracks jokes for a living this is what he is paid to do with the cash you are paid to portray characters sometimes even pay to you know, be funny. You're not paid slap people.
Marcus:I mean, he he he played Ollie,
William Jeffery:right? Punch closed
Marcus:fist so you shouldn't face this. Maybe I really felt that way. And he didn't want to like knock his
William Jeffery:teeth. You know, you don't slap a man and no one should be a knight has kicked them or something. He should have sat there and been in the audience as he was asked and they're always upset. She's a wife. It's her job to be anglers
Marcus:and if you were an award show for like I don't know head above hypocrisy became I don't know famous. No, that won't happen. Here's one that's more believable. That's corner because you know we got picked up on what again?
William Jeffery:Apple podcasts exclusively available there.
Marcus:I just your exclusive deal. Why don't you
William Jeffery:in other I'm an inclusive person I want everybody to know, but I also got to live. So yeah, my inclusion comes with a cost, I guess, if you want if you want actual advice. Google it. But you can also find out how I'm raising my children.
Marcus:Okay, you teach your children not to slap before,
William Jeffery:right? Yeah, no, if you have a problem with someone and words aren't working, then you know, you don't start with a slap because I'm gonna I don't want them to have to shoot anybody, right? The only way. I mean, that's the only time in history that slapping has been acceptable isn't if afterwards you shoot the person who slapped you.
Marcus:So someone insults your wife, you're gonna slap them, even though she looks upset.
William Jeffery:Like just a comedy show? No, it was a comedy shows the Oscars and like maybe a comedian presenting it depends on what the joke is. If it's like, if it's distasteful, okay? No, I'm still not storming the stage and slap anybody. I'm not famous. I'm going to jail.
Marcus:Oh, no. Like I say in this scenario, you're famous for whatever reason? Because obviously if you're failing,
William Jeffery:right, but I'm a famous black like, clearly, clearly Will Smith has a level of fame that I'm not able to conceptualize because always in all fantasies, I could be a unicorn with laser eyes and an Ironman suit. I would still be afraid to storm the stage for fear of being arrested and not being able to see my children ever again. They're too young for me to be gambling with my freedom that
Marcus:way Why would you be arrested in some black on black crime?
William Jeffery:They'll arrest both of us or we both get to either way I don't get home alright, what are you doing telling me not to be heavy all the time? You know the outcome if there is police involved
Marcus:not on live television and it was a black Will Smith is walking around
William Jeffery:really want me to explain how being on live television doesn't matter, Miss
Marcus:but as we switch, you know your Will Smith level of fame. Uh huh. He got away with it.
William Jeffery:He said was sort of my press charges. LAPD is clearly you know, given the culture of solid and declining he has as you should. Unfortunately, I would
Marcus:have pressed charges. I'd press all the charges. He just walked up and assaulted me for doing my job. Wait, I'm supposed to be defending Will Smith. Um, so the point is, Will Smith here I don't think he
William Jeffery:really has it. But he's already apologized and cried twice. Which I don't accept because yeah, I mean, it's his job to us to pull on our like, you know, emotional strings do you know they were asked they asked him to last all seven pounds. I didn't see seven pounds because I don't like to cry for recreationally but I know that he's capable of that so I don't believe any water range.
Marcus:I don't like Mr. Smaller. Yeah, I
William Jeffery:mean, he can apparently he can add like affiliate. Wow, Niekro. Which is range I didn't know. Yeah,
Marcus:no. So he had is also agrees, but she reached for different levels. All right. I think she grew hair but but she said she agrees because she's happy that a black man is standing up for his black woman.
William Jeffery:And I was about meeting black on black crime which doesn't exist, by the way but what you mean he just we just witnessed it
Marcus:right and slapped another black.
William Jeffery:Right but like the idea that there's more crime amongst blacks than any other people together there's gonna be like, yeah. For the sake of further right for the sake of the phrase, right? That's why That's why I can't support it like you can defeat there's other ways to play defense, right? Like, that's like saying, I support a clothesline and basketball because he didn't let the layup you know, happen at the basket. Like you could just, you know, wrap him up. You don't have to end his
Marcus:career. Right. Right. In his career. He's he made a more famous,
William Jeffery:right, but I'm saying that I'm saying that there are safer ways to play defense, right? Like, yeah, he didn't in this career, but he's injured. Right? Like he turned an ankle unnecessarily. Right. It's the first quarter, right? We're doing layup lines. And you just happen to be on the wrong side of the court you upset because I dunked on you with my warm ups on with you to bend on your side, where you supposed to be when that happened? If he if Will Smith had done his job. As a participant contested. Audience Member whatever you want to call it. Your job is to stay in your seat. I don't care how you react. It doesn't matter. Your job is to stay seated.
Marcus:He's gonna go home and deal with his wife. Would you ever wanted to go home and do it your way? It's worse than
William Jeffery:that. That's the other thing didn't if the goal was to protect your wife's honor, right? And for people not to talk like make fun of you. He is a new meme of him slapping now like it's it's even more it's worse. They're talking worse now than they would have if he just sat still. And this is another example of when all you had to do was nothing. Let her be mad. She's I bet you she's mad now. Why did you hit that man?
Marcus:I bet you she's not. I bet you're probably making love over the mean. No, they don't
William Jeffery:save They argue and embarrassed. That's what they do if anybody is is getting any sort of residual benefits out of this is to do disposed to saying that apparently all he does is ruin marriages. They do that every time every time we'll X out if he has an album I bet sales got a bet five people buy it. And that's five more and then we're buying it before
Marcus:maybe this promotional stuff I was working for for his his systems.
William Jeffery:How many people feel like it's a GoFundMe now that like we get we're doing this for the, you know, out of the sake
Marcus:of I mean, it was the first produced black Oscars
William Jeffery:in that's another reason it's you got to stay in your seat. Because now the war now if like, if if Will Smith is our best famous person, our best famous person has acted like ours, our worst stereotype
Marcus:I like, I like Will Smith, but I think are best famous persons to rock. And he wouldn't get up and slap anybody. He's a nice guy ever.
William Jeffery:That's because it would have to be a fault because they would disappear. He would slap them in to the spider verse. Like,
Marcus:I know, you're saying you wouldn't have got up and slap the guy.
William Jeffery:Not not. So what if I was in the exact situation? Right? Like if my wife was that offended over that small of a joke? No, I'm not like if he did five minutes. Oh, go on. You know, being bald from cancer treatment, or you know, something just terrible, then yeah, then I'll do something. Maybe I'll throw a drink on stage where every
Marcus:year at the award show, he always made a joke about her.
William Jeffery:And like, going, why would I continue to subject myself to put like, if I'm no, that that's good, I can see it. Why would I go? For what? So I can put myself in a situation where I have to slap somebody when nobody wins. I guarantee she's not happy. She may be there'll be some part of her that feels, you know, some sort of pride in the fact that you know, my husband and mommy is taken up for me. But you know, if she really felt some kind of way she would protect his feelings on her table, right? Like it just it was because it went on her show.
Marcus:So if you're so if it happened, your wife was upset and she was just like, hey, you shouldn't stick up for me. I feel like you don't have my back. He would have that conversation. Like
William Jeffery:I would explain all the legal ways in which I have her back in like how bills get paid on time I keep going to work. I help make sure that the kids are safe. I make dinner. I take trash out like bait bare minimum things. These are not things that you get gold stars or happy faces for believe me like I'm not setting the bar that low. But if we're talking about the bare minimum of having your back, if if we're setting the bar at assault the NIA now I'm not gonna just haul off and hit everybody that's rude to you. Like I've seen you interact with cashiers at Target. I've seen people put cheese when you ask for no cheese. I can't just go slapping every barista that doesn't know how you like your latte. Like that's not where we are adults. And by definition that is not how you handle infractions or disagreements of that level. So now No, I'm not just slapping anybody that makes my wife man, I would have to slap myself like three times a day. Not doing I don't you know, I don't I'm not about their life and all sport violence. That's not you know, from getting fouled too many times I like if you load rich me. I'm still not slapping a punch in the throat.
Marcus:What if you just got up there and make it well, what if he slapped them behind the scenes? Like he walked back?
William Jeffery:I would be better. That would be but like I would have preferred it had been like a blurry cell phone image of an off like, you know, off camera scuffle right, like Cardi B threw a shoe at Beyonce or which they had a whole fight at some orange show. But it was off. You know what, like, in the middle of a presentation so the you didn't even hear about it. I mean, when the big like nobody actually got hit you did? I don't I don't think oh, I think it was Nikki? Yeah, I think I think yeah, it was Nikki, I'm pretty sure did I think I said Beyonce, Beyonce. I mean, anybody out there I just feel like she went home. Like, that's the whole, um, it but it wasn't, it was it was, it was Nikki, it wasn't Beyonce. I was Freudian slip. But at any rate, it was not in the midst of a presentation. Yeah, it was just, you know, some off camera nonsense, which this at best should have been. It was one joke from a comedian during a show. Well, and it was to professional entertainers. So it's not like, you know, like, I can react that way because I do my show from a garage and you can't seem like I'm not I'm not used to that level of fame and or scrutiny. So like, if if, you know if it happened to me that like if Chris Rock made fun of my wife today, and she got upset, I'm like, No, you know, understand, this is good for us. Like do you understand this is almost as good as getting canceled. So you keep being mad, right? I'm not going to jail. Rob, the show could soar. You throw a drink, you get upset. You're tiny white light anyway, there's not a jail on earth that you're supposed to be in. So you can throw the biggest tantrum you want. And at best, you know, they'll say you had a rough childhood or something
Marcus:who's speaking to people, and I don't want to talk about this too long. But I'm starting to think that possibly, like you said, yes, my thing was possibly staged. And the whole Kardashian thing is staged? Because did you hear that their shows coming back? And I'm not trying to promote it or anything? Oh, I heard that. I thought they did the whole retirement or we're done. We're dealing with the cameras. But now it's like, they got to deal with Hulu, and they're coming back.
William Jeffery:Again, young minds. I protect my children from all things Kardashian, I don't I have no idea. I assume that their entire career was staged. In fact, like it was a science experiment to see if people would just watch a television slot right, right, you know, filled with anything, it's you. I hope not he has enough of his own self generated problems that he doesn't need to assist with anybody else
Marcus:would have Kanye West and Will Smith were the greatest actors known to man.
William Jeffery:I don't know but I think that Will Smith and Birdman need to stop sharing therapist because apparently they are advising that you you handle your rage and and process your grief on unsuspecting bystanders and or radio hosts and show presenters should I got a whole lot of you know, put some respect on my name, our tree y'all vibes from the Will Smith situation.
Marcus:So he's gonna walk up there and say, put your dukes up. And then with the fisticuffs, instead of hitting a man that was unprepared, when
William Jeffery:you ate tend to show, okay, you have one job and it is to remain in your seat, regardless of how much your feelings are hurt. And if you do get out of your seat, you are only allowed to go south not nor if you can go to the restroom, but you never go towards the stage always away. Well, they asked him to leave after he slapped him. He said no was too late now don't worry, like me.
Marcus:It was like he slapped them and it was like Hey, man, you got to go. And he was like, Nah, I'm
William Jeffery:good. What do they need to get better security if you can just in the security of all they can do is suggest things like mall security does more than that. They at least wave some flashlights and stuff. Nobody called the or they at least call the real police. Eventually, they were like you need to leave. No, I'm good. Well, we tried like that. No, you didn't. You had a conversation. You didn't even say sternly get up like Sir, though. You need to leave. You said one time that I wouldn't have left. I'm good. Ah, like, what does he just man, this was Christmas. He should have
Marcus:been amazing with the lapel mic.
William Jeffery:Maybe? What
Marcus:happened? He bought his fist up. And I think oh, yeah, now he was there was no mind let me relax them because he was just I think he just realized like, you know, I don't know. I don't know what he realized. Um, so once again, I'm somebody defending Will Smith. Um,
William Jeffery:I mean, if he does, it's, I don't know. I don't know. It's tough. I feel like it would had a knee jerk reaction rather than something he might have called a Lukang kick to the back mess for me. I don't I don't know for one joke. And so that's the thing as a comic if I were armed with the the arsenal of jokes in wit that a professional such as as Chris Rock is armed with at the very least I'm going to give his wife the amount of attention that that slap warranted so they go have to go to commercial to get me to stop talking about how much hair she does not have gone. How many you know how much laundry she's aired and how many other people you could have slapped? If you really wanted to know if anything, right? Yeah, no, I just if he wants to slap somebody should it's like he should slap data. That's what he should slap that just you know, re have everybody just reexamine the relationship. Okay, and just, you know, that'd be a real centering moment. Right? Right. Yeah. Well, that would have been amazing turnout and slapped her lights for black upset. That is for breaking an affair on your Facebook show. Maybe you called me up to this table to have this talk with me and he handled I thought we were gonna talk about having an open relationship. You know, I didn't know we were gonna be one specific like, you know, I was dating the Mexican with the Cindy Crawford mole. We didn't nobody asked me about that.
Marcus:I have Amanda's Mexican.
William Jeffery:I don't know she's Hispanic have some sauces. And she has the Cindy Crawford mole she she's she might be Puerto Rico. I don't know but she's definitely not Mexican way that 100% Missed point. But you know me I'm just yeah, anyway, whatever her national the non white with the Cindy Crawford mole. She's not black. She's not white. She's from some point as you're pointing out well, I mean, since we want to just talk about people's racial backgrounds and cultural specificities, then let's, you know, we could talk about, but you know, I asked him that. So, you know, if we want to just talk about affairs and I just I don't understand. I don't I that's why he should slap Jada. Because that's where the anger came from. If anything, like if anybody deserved to be slapped in order, though, I'm operation right. of order of operations of the people we know involved of the recent Smith Family outbursts slaps, you know, slap count, right? Obviously, with July August, is all 555 fingers slap off your hands. Okay. Next is Jada for put well in that position and or explaining the position on national internet? Hi, everyone, email on TV via Facebook. But it became national news. Because that's where she decided to, you know, confirm, yes, the all they had to do was you know, dance around it as they normally do and talk about something else. But no, let's confirm it. Because I want my table to be the only table people talk about things on the table during the pandemic. Yeah, nobody is sitting at the table now, because they saw what happened. And it is a poisonous table. I'm not the food there is terrible. But so, next set of slaps would be you know, Jada. And then I guess in no specific order, the other you know, the idea of a functional open marriage, you can slap on people because it has yet to be effective. And they they're supposed to be like the front runners for that too. Right? Like they're supposed to be. He's supposed to be the best black, you know, celebrity guy was supposed to be the most understanding when it comes to you know, relationship problems and marital work and stuff out and love peace, that and we let our kids wile out and be bald and do all kinds of crazy stuff. And you know, it's okay, because we love and but you say one joke, you get slapped? Like it doesn't make any sense. I mean, they love Do you understand that the word situation means something different because of the effect of that.
Marcus:I mean, the situation ship,
William Jeffery:what write the word situation has now that situation should didn't even exist, right until them. They created a word exam, a terrible, awful word that allows people to cheat and try to you know, make it I don't know, emotionally intellectually, I don't know why. It's, it's awesome. But if cheating is cheating, and it's you know, it's not good for relationships. I don't care how open you are to the idea. someone's feelings always get hurt. And there's always an outburst. Often someone gets slapped. Usually it results in jail time, and or the police being called, but if you're famous, you know, you just get your Oscar chagrined.
Marcus:Yeah, he did get to perform his acceptance speech, right. It's about love.
William Jeffery:Right. And we supposed to there that's just range is all I mean, I just I don't believe anything. He has said I just interviewed his actor. It doesn't make sense. It does make sense people talking about your wife for a whole pandemic. And not a slap was thrown the right one joke, we all get outside. And he decided to act a fool they might put us all back in quarantine. Oh, he got the Rona, he's lost his mind. Apparently one of the new symptoms is, you know, reasonable decision making.
Marcus:As you land this plane, I see what you mean. We should all strive to be like, Well,
William Jeffery:no, no. What did you step out during the entire episode? I could have swore you were here. Maybe somebody slapped me. And now my vision is skewed. But at no point that I had. No, I didn't advocate for anything that he did. If anything, I advocate for people getting not sharing therapist, because even Birdman clearly are getting advice from the same place. I think that you I mean, I'm not gonna say there's never a place for violence, right? You got to defend yourself. Like if any, if, if I were an advocate for violence, Chris Rock should have done something to Will Smith. That's the only one if
Marcus:he did something he would if he were out there and made fun of your children. To like the fact the kid was crying. just bawling in tears.
William Jeffery:It depends on sometimes he's crying about things that are frustrating to me. So just lands and I love my daughter and that see if that's the thing if you can find out more about this on Dad's Corner, and Apple podcast but one of the the constant struggles of being a parent is loving someone and hating what they're doing in the very same moment. So it very much depends on why she's crying. She's crying because I won't let her go on stage and shake Mr. Chris Rock's hand, then go ahead. Make fun and look at these fools don't know what to do with it. You're right. You're right. You won't come help me. I might tell a joke back you never know. But like, you know, she fell down in the aisle and he's like, Oh, look, this idiot kid can't walk, then he might get punched in the mouth. And that's different, right? Because she's a child. Jada is older than we'll maybe I don't know how old she is. She Oh, she's she's an adult. All right, like, I'm not gonna make fun of her. Because actually, I will again, I can deal I want the publicity. Please come slap me. I'll hit you back. And I may not win, but I also work out I don't have a trainer. I can't afford the same kind of gym as you do. But I tried to take care of myself. And if I lose the fight, you're not beat me on the basketball court. So I'm getting you to get back either way. But you know, you just i It's not no, she's a full grown adult. She can defend if any if if she really felt that strongly about it, then she should have got out there slap them and we would all that's different. Like that's a woman slamming a man for making fun of her medical condition or so she felt we've learned well maybe you know how to teach rock to do tell that joke. And you know wouldn't it would not be what it is today now. But that was not your place. That's not the proper reaction. I am a huge advocate for you know, the the punishment end or the reaction matching the the action end or the crime and that in this instance, that it was the ratio is all out of whack. It was one off nine I don't know if it was off the cuff but it was one joke that fell off the cuff or like a quip like he wrote at the last minute and that's it like even if it was important to you even if she like was that upset you that is not the reaction if he wanted if you wanted to do what he did after the slap and scream all through his the rest of his presentation. That's I'm okay with that. And that's equally you know, to me, that's, that shows your disapproval we get your upset we understand your emotional place. But now you're not a lunatic now you don't now you're not perpetuating a stereotype. Now you're not you know, now it's not all these other things, that slapping another person on national television is right, like you gotta if anybody should understand that you as a professional entertainer, grown adult should right like that's, that's that's my biggest issue. I don't care how mad you are, like, you got to understand the the stage that you're on, if he did done it at the Source Awards, who cares? Right? Like, BT, whatever, doesn't matter. Six people watching that anyway. It's not important. But the whole you know, everybody's watching and all the people that think all the things about us are watching this. And this is how you want to act like and for that reason. Like again, it wasn't it wasn't five minutes on Jada and her disease and how well her movies have done since set it off. And you know, it wasn't that it was one I don't know but nine word sentence that's that an asset and he was trying to move on that now you have focus this on this we we would have moved on when you're not gonna joke, we we would have come the whole world would have moved their attention on with the show. And we could have watched Dinsdale present to Sam, which is smooth, smooth pass that you're talking about Dinsdale is our number one verse Will Smith, it's clearly he's not because our number, he stands top five. And we missed that whole moment. Because you want to slap people. You got to be an adult man. And I talked about that you got you got to be girl. It just I mean, I get it. She's mad. And when she's mad, she thought crazy about you on the show. But, you know, maybe surround yourself with people that care about your feelings. You know, that's that's what I keep telling my daughter, she got this friends you don't get along with. And I'm like, if she makes you feel this way, then there's 15 other kids in your class, talk to one of them. Will everybody on earth wants to talk to you and be nice to you except your wife. I mean, I was told there'd be no math. But if I would talk to someone, I'm just you know, I'm not advocating cheating. I just I have a firm stance on that. But I also have a firm stance on protecting my piece and it seems very disruptive in your household my brother and he's a male head above epoxy is here. There is an open chair at the steel table just I'm just saying it's available. And I'm not going to be quiet as a you know disrespectful or dis you know not I'm not going to disregard your feelings in the questions that I asked and the things that I you know, asked you to discuss. So there is a table that appreciate your presence. If anything, you know, maybe maybe not to leave your home marriage just, you know, seek counsel in a different color table. The head of policy table is here.